Sigh
April 28, 2014 in Lymphoma by Reta Reed
Jeff’s birthday is Wednesday. I brought this up to Travis last night as he splashed in the tub. He said, “But Dad died?” I said, “Yes, but it’s still his birthday and he would be turning 46.” He asked if we could have a party and cake for Dad. I told him we could do something special. We could make one of Dad’s favorite cakes – spice cake or strawberry. Travis voted strawberry. 🙂
We’re doing okay, all in all. Sometimes my mind will drift and I’ll see flashes of the past year, like each moment is a photo that someone is tossing in the air randomly. Deeeep breath. Choose happy.
So happy to hear that our Jeff will be remembered on his birthday. I hope he has a big piece of cake and rocks & rolls all night. I miss you and love you. MOM
Today bring me sadness and happiness. I’m glad you chose to celebrate Jeff’s birthday. “Life is about living not about dying”. It came from a movie ” Lonesome Dove”. In context; It was meant to convey that we should enjoy life and not spend all our time dwelling on the fact that we will die, someday. Happy Birthday Jeff.
Take Care
James
Jeffry was in my thoughts today, so I decided to come here and see how you all were doing. I’m glad y’all are doing something special for Jeffry’s birthday, as difficult as it will be, I think it’s important to celebrate and remember the good times you’ve had together.
With Love,
Tiffany Kozak
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